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Because the reality is a vast majority of your efforts of love will go unnoticed or ignored.
You should put in enough effort to show you care and read what they had to say, but not so much effort that you seem obsessed with them. Actually, you shouldn’t wait for a reply, but just keep going and reaching out to people you might like, instantly forgetting about them after sending you message so as not to feel too disappointed if they don’t respond.
Though I would (and will later) argue that this is not necessarily a bad thing, it does mean the app attracts different users in general than Ok Cupid does.
Especially considering Tinder also has a bit of a “hook-up app” reputation as well, though you may find yourself disappointed if you believe that.
geeks like me tend to gravitate more towards Ok Cupid, while those just looking for some lighthearted dating/fun towards Tinder.
That doesn’t mean you can’t find a relationship on Tinder, or a hookup on Ok Cupid though.
If someone you liked likes you too, that’s a match and you can now find them in the corresponding screen and start chatting with them.