Tips for dating a successful man
No matter how difficult it is, refrain from having sex for at least 90 days ( YES 90! The second you pull the dramatic, needy girlfriend bit…start packing, because you, and those amazing shoes you just bought at Saks will be waiting for you outside the door. Don’t come off as a ditzy valley girl or a girl chugging down Bud Lights at a Blake Shelton concert. Most of us get so wrapped up in the “Independent Woman” mindset that we forget that a relationship is 50/50.) or until you are in a serious, monogamous, committed, relationship and heading for the alter. My love is a very successful Neurologist, and he works 100 hours per week. Like I said almost ALL successful men work long hours and be that woman he can enjoy having around, not the burden. As vain and somewhat sexist as that may sound, it is VERY important. You are going to be around many of his colleagues and clients that have money and many will be highly educated. Do nice things for him and take care of him and I promise it will pay off in the end.Don’t pine, don’t blow up his phone and don’t call his wife or family.Throughout my entire life many women and friends have always asked “how do you always seem to find the good ones” ” find the most attractive and successful men? To find successful men you must be in that circle, and you’re not going to get there by working at Walmart. If they offer gifts, refuse the first few months, as hard as it may seem, you want to set the precident high.You never know who in his circle knows someone who knows someone who knows you.Plus all that show off might ruin your chances of getting YOUR OWN man – because sis, this one is not yours.It is bad enough that you’re already sleeping with HER man and causing her some level of pain.
You want to be something different , something special.
If you guys agree on Wednesdays and Thursdays, then that’s what you get.
Don’t go asking for more and even more importantly, do not get too mad when he doesn’t show up on the scheduled days because, Madam might need him for one thing or the other and well, priorities…
I know it sounds like an ancient way of looking at sex and dating, but that shit still works like a gem. He barely has time to sleep let alone text me 20 times a day about what kind of shoes to buy at Saks. Name the last time you saw a rich, famous, or successful man dating a woman in an Aeropostale sweatshirt, jeans, and Converse sneakers??? Educate yourself on fashion and beauty, look chic and classy at all times. Know your makeup (MAC, Nars, Dior, YSL, Chanel, etc.) Know your fashion! They are the top of the food chain so don’t act like the bottom. Who’s wants to sound like an uneducated, hillbilly anyways??? He works hard and baking him some cookies a couple times a week won’t hurt.
If you can’t afford those brands then a little black dress from anywhere will do, but ALWAYS look beautiful and classy. Even though we can afford to eat anywhere or have a chef come to our house to cook, I ALWAYS cook dinner for him.
Let me begin by saying that dating a married man is something you ABSOLUTELY shouldn’t do.