Why am i not into dating
I’m only asking a girl out on a real date if I think there’s some actual relationship potential – if I like her beyond her looks.A girl with a great personality is worth all the trouble that asking, planning, and paying for a date involves.But is it so wrong for me to ask for a girl's opinion while planning an evening that I want to make sure she enjoys? After asking and planning this special event, the guy has to pay for the whole thing!I know some ladies don’t mind going dutch or finding someway to split costs (which is great), but how many would offer to do so on the first date?I want to vibe with you, or at least think I could vibe with you, on a deeper level, if I’m going to ask you on a real date.The fact that going on real dates is so rare these days should make the girl I do take out feel extra special..pass_color_to_child_links a.u-inline.u-margin-left--xs.u-margin-right--sm.u-padding-left--xs.u-padding-right--xs.u-absolute.u-absolute--center.u-width--100.u-flex-align-self--center.u-flex-justify--between.u-serif-font-main--regular.js-wf-loaded .u-serif-font-main--regular.amp-page .u-serif-font-main--regular.u-border-radius--ellipse.u-hover-bg--black-transparent.web_page .u-hover-bg--black-transparent:hover. Content Header .feed_item_answer_user.js-wf-loaded .
As a man who has a wealth of experience with the opposite sex, I’d like to share my thoughts on why the “dating” scene is the way it is these days.
I don’t have money to waste on a girl I’m not even sure I like yet, because there’s a slight chance she won’t be worth that sort of investment.
I may be physically attracted to a girl, but if I already know that she’s not somebody I’d want to be in a real relationship with, why waste my money and time? Those are the girls who I ask to just come over and hangout.
Plus, you always want to find the perfect moment to ask her on a date, but those can be hard to come by if there’s no opportunity for one-on-one time.
This means that, even if we want to ask her out, a good chance may never present itself.
First off, asking a girl out on an actual date can be stressful because of the possibility of rejection.